Yo could you add in cultural preferences feature? Because historically, well cultured and developed ethnicity would not have married with less developed and less cultured ethnicity. For example, the holy Roman emperor would not want to marry an Arab or a person from nomadic ethnicity from central Asia, etc. Historically, nobility would want to marry their own kind to appear legitimate. Same for the lowborn/regulars, if from a well developed and cultured ethnicity, but to a lesser extent. For example, by the time the seljuks take over persia, historically, many iranians hated them and thought of them as invaders, and so it would be very rare for you to see an Iranian person marry an Oghuz. However, because the oghuz culture is less developed and cultured, they wouldn't have any preferences and would go purely based on preferences and alliance power. I think you get the point. It would just make the game a lot more immersive and realistic.

update

either its not working or working differently than i imagine, because i can still marry my old courtier women matrilineally

Working on 1.16?

anyone can confirm it's working on and after 1.15?

@AzoorFox

For you it comes on 01/01/2026.


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UPDATE WHEN????????????????????????

update please!

please

update pls

please update, thanks

I love this mod so much, please update, thanks

Will there be an update soon to fit the current version of the game?

Great mod! Is it possible to add that the AI take into account family reputation? Like high reputation family would not marry a really low family even if they are a king since they are probably king of a low kingdom

Awesome thanks!

@NubileThighGaps

As far as I can say, it is working, yes.

Does this work with 1.14? Has anyone tried it?

actualization ?

Please 🙏 can you create a mod to allow our daughters to marry mercenary commanders?
(Not for alliance but just to give the game more realism).
Thank you 🤗

Hello @Torngasuk , really love your work. could you please update this mod? thank you!

Update

Do I understand correctly if I delete the lines
"NOT = {
is_visibly_fertile = no
}"
in the 00_marriage_triggers.txt file, then I will remove the restriction that old women cannot get married, and everything will work fine?

is this AGOT compatible?

love ur mod bro! but i also love the mod love marriage family... is there a significant difference between these two? because or im either stupid or i dont truly know the difference.

Thank you for updating!

ty for uptdate. awesome mod

Updated! Although I haven't had time to thoroughly test out any oddness to do with the new landless system, so if you notice any, please do let me know! Appreciate your patience!

Update please

Are players still bound to the same restrictions as the AI? Or is that optional? Great mod, keen for the update

I should have this updated this weekend - apologies for the wait, a bit busy this week.

Thank you for your hard work!

@Torngasum - Thanks for letting us know, great mod!

Will update as soon as I can! Also will consider the AGOT requests - there are a few different considerations there I need to take into account, but I'll look into it.

Hello @Torngasuk, could you please update this mod for the new update? thanks!

Yeah we need this for AGOT.

AGOT mod compatch pleas..

any chance this can get an AGOT mod compatch? Can't tell you how many times I've seen the Targaryens marry their precious heirs off to random minor lords/peasants, (there's a reason why Aegon V disinherited his first born, because he fell in love with/married a commoner!)
Ranting Aside, love this mod and thought I'd see if you were able to add a compatch 😅

Feels like this still ends up with some weird marriages. King of England marry a coptic african non noble for some reason (who used to be his courtier)

really sucks that the mod wont allow you to remarry if too old (as a female ruler).. since spouse adds to your skills..

is there a mod that forbid ai marry the lowborn ones?

Any other mods like this, but with a modder willing to do the research on more than just Christendom?

ty

Great, thanks for the update

I am at work right now, but I will update this for compatibility as soon as possible. I appreciate your patience, thank you!

Hello Torngasuk, could you please update this mod for the new update? thanks

@ MK

Depends on the mod but what Better Marriage changes is very narrow in nature, so, no big risk of breaking anything. To be on the safe side load the total conversions after Better Marriage.

major mods usualy change the same files

Anyone know if this works with major overhaul mods?

@Psijic : What you were answered to on the PDX Forums has not changed : No.

Any contents potential about more restricts on morganatic marriages?