reduced .net version since people without up-to-date frameworks crashes.

Added disable option for the display chat stuff.
can be found in the options menu

Fixed occasional crash when entering color shortcuts at the start of an online match
now using xnas update method so that only characters that are about to be replace will be seen one frame instead of 2 frames

the mod will not be disabled when joining modded lobbies anymore!

think i fixed the lobby and caretRenderer related crashes