Go Back to the Arena

If you were invited to this group, you were an invader (especially of a fellow invasion covenant) in Dark Souls 3 who sat back and did nothing and let another invader fight a "duel" (except with healing) with the host.

You're probably new, and should know that a host is in embered form (meaning they have 30% more maximum health), where a combination of the rings of life and favor +3 can give them over 1800 total health, when a normal invader often has only 1000 health. They can also potentially have more than twice as much estus as an invader (15 estus total vs. invaders who have 7).

It's not a duel. It's an invasion. Either do your job and fight the host or don't invade. You're taking up a slot that could otherwise be used by someone who actually wants to play the game instead of just sitting around, doing nothing, watching or participating in unbalanced, stale duels.

For "pro lone hosts", pretty much the same thing. Go to the arena if you want to duel. At best you have an inherent 30% extra life advantage, at worst you have 15 +10 estus which amounts to roughly 11k health someone would have to get through to win (9k from estus, 2k base health). Worse yet with twinked out siegbraus and divine blessing. It's just really ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ boring, invaders aren't looking for duels otherwise we'd be in the arena, too.

We have arena now. Go there. You can duel to your hearts content there, friend. 1 on 1, no healing, no ganking, all the honor you can handle. That's where duels go, not in invasions. Go back to the arena, stop invading if you don't want to actually participate. Stop trying to force invaders to honor duel you (with 30% extra health and 15 +10 estus if you're losing). You're just a waste of space.