Being honest is dangerous. Being honest online for no good reason is silly. Consider me being a parent giving you advice.

I can't say it, it will hurt feelings and get me banned. its great advice though.

To think for myself. Don't follow the crowd.

Ironically they didn't follow their own advice.

They never gave me any direct advice. Most of the communication was implicit subtext delivered into the subconscious. I resented them for this after a certain point, however it's a time honored method of engineering and reflects a level of mastery that I don't think I could consciously replicate.

引用自 Grendalcat：

To think for myself. Don't follow the crowd.

This too for me I suppose

Also, there's more to the story than just one side