What are the average times people achieve things in this mod? I.e, Fallen Empire tech 1-4, ascending, etc?

I read somewhere that the expected time to ascend is around year 250, but I'm at year 250 playing a tall fanatic materialist research empire (around 400 science each, +118-177% per science type), but I haven't gotten FE tech 3 yet (tech for their ship types). 4 of 5 Fallen empires (FE expanded mod too) have awoken and I'm getting worried - Xenophobes are bashing in my front door.

Currently have 40 Titan Laser + 4x L Energy Lance battleships with max shields possible, and 20 something older variants with a mix of titan attack craft, terror cannons and terror cannon prototypes. And some crap cruisers.

The War in Heaven is ongoing, the materialists side is way, WAY more powerful than the spiritualists side, and the spiritualists are about to get stomped. The Prethoryn just arrived near the Spiritualist AE, too. I'm afraid I might not make it to the finish line, and I've put in around 15-20 hours into this game, just turtling. Help?