Q:What is the load order i need to use if i am running Eternal and Primal Fear together?

A: Primal Fear and its expansions First then Ark Eternal and all its expansions after Primal Fear mods .
You MUST use the Ark Eternal/Primal Fear Compatability Mod and load it after all of them.
When doing this you must set DifficultyOffset=1.0 and OverrideOfficialDifficulty=20 in your GameUserSettings.ini or you wont get the 600 max wild level from Ark Eternal, which will screw up the mod balance and you wont be able to kill our bosses. (edited)