Hi, recently I've noticed that after adding the Atlantis + Sea elves mod to Elf Destiny, some of my children, or other elf children stay looking like a child, even after they reach 16 years old. I can send screenshots and save file if you need.
I'm pretty sure this is a compatibility issue, since the base Elf Destiny mod doesn't cause this issue.
Please look into this, thanks!

That shouldn't be the case, cause I didn't overwrite files of Elf Destiny that check the age
Are you able to send screenshots in Elf Destiny discord?
discord.gg/K9kQ7mYa
There is a channel: other-mods -> Elf Destiny: Sea Elves

Here is how elf aging works in Elf Destiny
Upon birth every elf child gain Elf mortal trait
With that trait they age and grow like all other characters until 20 years old
When 20 years old is reached their Elf mortal trait is replaced with Elf immortal and aging from now on is controlled by script that every year check the age and sets appearance of that elf accordingly
In my mod I didn't overwrite anything connected to birth, Elf traits or that script
So it seems to be Elf Destiny bug

I took the screenshot while the child was 18, and she died at around 26 without changing to an "adult" model.
Which channel do I post it it?
EDIT:
I checked the bug reports channel and it seems to be linked to "Ascending a child heir suspends aging"
This is exactly what happened in my case, I ascended my whole family early on, and this child was one of the ascended elves.

Yeah, seems like known bug
Hopefully Elf Destiny creator will patch it with next update

I have done the expedition to the new site in two game saves, where the event says its now a holysite, but it does not actually show on the religion map,or tab and the building slot is greyed out like it is a site for a different religion. Any idea what I'm doing wrong. Might try to trouble shoot to see if its any of the ED submods interfering if I have time this evening.

I think it was just me being dumb, added a holding manager mod and in the processed mucked about the load order and I think i put something higher than the atlantis stuff that messed it up. so definitely not an issue on your end. <edit> checked with the ED specific holding changer submod. If loaded before Atlantis and sea elves it stops the holy site from appearing if loaded after everything is fine.

The bloodline of house valerith trait is affected by the mod, the silver/white hair effect is removed for me with this mod active.

The holy site doesn't seem to work for me no matter what load order I try. Everything else about the mod works just fine but the holy site won't work. I CAN go there on expedition, but there is also no description for this expedition like in the screenshot, just a -.

Mods Used:
-Elf Destiny
-Atlantis Continued
-Sea Elves (In that order)