Latest Version: 5.0.4
Due to Bannerlord updates I had to rewrite the whole mod (also for having a clean start). Due that fact only the basic features are now implemented.

The personality stats were reduced to: Sociability, Jealousy and Empathy
The 5 personality stats were never fully understood, thus I reduced it to the most important values for the mod. YOu want your lovers/spouses to accept others? Set the Jealousy to zero.
Love & Marriage system - as before
You have to ask the clan leader for permission and they have to like you to agree (friends). You have to be friends before you can start dating. If you don't gain enough love points, you'll need a couple of dates to be successful in this point. Dates may lead to intimacy. Being lovers you can also ask for it, but you have to persuade them.
Pregnancy system
Every bastard is ending up in the orphanage - you can adopt them back if you want.
Orphanage
You always can adopt kids, you don't need to be married anymore.
Confrontation system
You will be confronted and you can confront. If you tell your significant other to drop the other relation, they'll do so and won't meet the other hero for 14 days
Rumour system
You will be approached and you can ask for rumors. As player you're not automatically witness anymore - so you gotta find out what's happening behind your back. You can always tell NPCs to leave you alone, and they won't approach you anymore until you tell them they may approach you again.
NPC interactions
The will interact with each other and with you. When being approach you can tell NPCs to leave you alone as well.
Visit Lover quest
As before, but they'll break up with you when you ignore them
HotButter integration
Whenever they manage to get their mod 1.3.* ready it should be used automatically. Meanwhile you can enjoy a textbanner :)
For the beginners: First always setup your own hero using the Dramalord Editor (in MCM). Other heroes will only flirt with you if they match your taste. Also the personality has to match if you develop a friendship faster.


As for the question challenges, you'll find everything on their encyclopedia page you need to answer the questions.

Note that some info if hidden until you've asked them for their personal taste - which you can only do when you're friends ;)

As before every mod playing with marriage and pregnancies are not compatible:

Marry Anyone
Spouses Expanded
Bastard Children
MoreSpouses Pro

This version can not load old savegames, you have to start over - I'm sorry but it just didn't work out!

Since 5.0.4:
I added visuals for becoming lovers and intercourse events. If HutButter is activated (you can deactivate it now in MCM) the intercourse visual will not play.


5.0.4:
Fixed conversation end bug when battle options disappeared
Fixed double MCM entries
Added visuals
5.0.3:
HotButter flag was always yes even it wasn't present - works again
Asking for divorce lead to a conversation block - temporarly fixed
5.0.2:
Updated to Bannerlord 1.3.6 and updated dependencies
5.0.1:
Fixed missing method in confrontation quest
5.0.0:
Reimplementation for Bannerlord 1.3