Hello, I want to try using mods, and two things in particular would be very helpful regarding improving in my personal opinion the gameplay: a mod that either allows you better control of AI-lead armies of your kingdom (to force for example not to attack enemy settlements of a given enemy I am not interested in conquering) or how often your council votes to go to way (ideally a mod that in essence removes this capacity for the player kingdom would be very nice indeed), and another mod that allow one to convince faction leader to join your custom kingdom, just like you can with other clan leaders. Are there mods that allow this? If so, where can I find them? If not, how could I make them?