I FINALLY managed to marry Rhagaea (simp lol) but once i do either i choose my clan or her clan my party zeroes to 20 max i lose the men and i cant change that since my army doesnt have the banners of her kingdom anymore. Any ideas on what to do. I joined the southern empire to marry her and i was planning to take her to my clan (which doesnt occur) and create my own kingdom once im powerful enough..

Thank you for explaining this

@GamerGirlDK: That means you actually have a negative sympathy value. For the player it's capped at 0, because otherwise you would loose trust. You have to repeat it, because for each successful talk, the NPC as adapting more of your own personality, so eventually they will like you and the trust value raises.

@MR Freier: Actually I guess you have the videos off already. The native Wedding Scene can lead to a crash due to the asynchonous methods of the DLC. The videos are a global layer, being independent and should avoid this

@MR Freier. try unchecking dramalord videoes

How come, when you talk to some people neither trust nor sympathy rises?

I'm having problems wen i become meried, its crashing

Can you increase the character’s charm skill through chatting?

your so goated

Just pushed 5.0.13:
- Fixed companions becoming lords on marriage
- Replaced all inquiries with custom ones
- Compiled with Bannerlord 1.3.10

also is their any way to upgrade the companion I married to the family tab?

I'm married to a companion and every time we have a child they aren't in the family tab of the clan and their profession is "wanderer". Is there any fix for this?

I really like the dramalord videos... I just have one thing. There is a scene where you see a little of his ''thing'' and it looks like a mix if a foot and a hand

HALLO FUNKTIONIERT AUCH FÜR 1.3.10

was the option to ask companions to join your clan removed?

will there be another mode for 1.2.12 with no updates like other big modes? It would be pretty nice tbh

OK, everything's fine. I had to restart the game and the update installed. It works, thank you.

It still crashes for me, though.

Just pushed 5.0.12:
-Fixed activating hero on adoption
- fixed crash on birth

Yeah seems like childbirth crashes the game. It's happened a few times. On the save where I don't have kids, it doesn't crash.

yeah childbirth and event crash the game

Yeah there is something in this mod that after a certain point of playing just crashes the game. I think it might be the birth thing as @GamerGirlDK mentions, as my wife is pregnant and there is its about time for her to give birth.

Thank you kindly for the update.

Videos look straight out of a mobile game ad.

When trying to show birth video the game crashes

I have been jumpscared by this mod

@Steven Blaster Thanks man, keep up the good work.

Bro game crushing after mod update

Just deployed 5.0.11:
- Native marriage will give lovepoints to avoid instant divorce
- Fixed Flirts and talks results
- Added videos for births
- Added custom inquiries
- Fixed player captivity events

@Lazkay This version should fix that bug

I don't know if this is a bug, or a bad setup, but all the characters in the game just frown at each other when flirting, nothing changes, not trust nor love, no one is getting married, but they break up, no one taking up lovers, literally im the only one who can do that. And when I look at the "Dramalord Editor" in Mod Options, i can see that the characters that are flirting do find each other attractive, but still nothing happens, any thoughts?

Mr. Author plz could you add MCM to avoid level of clan for marry....


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Que genial ahora si esta bien hecha la traducción, jaja pero aun así era gracioso la traducción de antes como: me encantan verlos huesos jajajajajajjaj

@Author

o/ check mod IA there is a mod that could introduce IA free at least for some time with refresh each day... lol

Just pushed 5.0.10:
- Mod Path Fix for Steam (videos are playing now - tested)

In MCN, you can set the pregnancy duration, but this only takes effect for those generated by darmalord. Is it possible to have an additional setting that can modify the default pregnancy time as well? Thank you.

I still cant get dramalord videos to work. Even if I uncheck Hotbutter

Just deployed 5.0.9:
- Fixed conversation lock during marriage quest
- Fixed VisitLoverQuest
- Fixed captivity Events
- Added Captivity videos

@Nerever14: Check your Dramalord setup in MCM. Unsubscribe and re-subscribe - steam is sometimes bad with handling mods. Make sure you place Dramalord at the end of your list (before War Sails). And also other mods can influence the functionality - every mod touching pregancies and marriages is potentially not compatible.
@Yonoosh: Dramalord does not touch the mechanics you're mentioning

I missed the quest to go satisfy my companion, so now I don’t have the marriage option anymore, even after winning them back. Any solutions?

I am running into an issue where my clan is randomly leaving the western empire and I'm losing my castles do to it. No prompt as to why. I have been reading from posts with the same problem from years ago as there's no real current posts. Some of the posts are stating it has to do with any mods allowing marriage of faction leaders, where if you marry a faction leader it can cause a bug that kicks you out of the empire you're in. I don't know if that is something that has been reported before or not but I have used Dramalord for a bit now and it's the first time I've experienced this bug. Might also be the first time my character married a different empires faction leader though. I have good standing with the western empire and 100 relations with the empires leader. Thanks for all the updates.

please make an outdated version on 1.2.12 for those of us who are broke

@Steven Blaster Thank you. That alleviates my confusion

I think the mod is only partially working from me. I am playing on the latest version of Bannerlord and Warsails. I added the mod mid game. I was already married and had 3 children with my wife who was 32. I used the editor to fix her values so she loves me and what not. Since installing the mod and 4 in game years later no more children even though I have satisfied her passion multiple times. Other issues:
-When asking npcs about gossip they never have anything to mention
-I have witnessed zero events
-The videos do no play for me. I have hotbutter disabled and only have dramalord videos enabled.
-Default marriage and pregnancy are disabled.

I tried unsubscribing/subscribing but that did not change anything. Any ideas on what the issue is? So far there hasnt really been any drama other then my wife did take a lover even though all her values for me were at 100. Love the concept of the mod, but so far the interactions still seem very static.

@Pe'pe It means you can turn off native marriage and pregnancies of the game - which will only allow Dramalord marriages and pregnancies

How does divorce work? Never seems to go through, instead I get quests to get permission from the current husband, then the quest insta fails.

Is that not to be confused with the option "Allow default marriages" in the config? I am still confused about what that and "Allow default pregnancies" does...

I am not playing with the DLC but you can still not marry merchants and artisans from towns. I expect its the same with companions

@Steven Blaster. I have not played with the new update yet, but before that was the case

Just deployed 5.0.8:
Removed two Harmony patches which are not required anymore
Added new Harmony patch for PlayerIsSpouseTag
Companions get lords/ladies when they marry the player
Added videos for marriage and divorce

Apparently calling the default wedding scene can cause problems with the DLC, so I created a custom notification which works with global layers and should be stable.

@GamerGirlDK Without the DLC being loaded there should be no crash when the wedding scene is loaded. If this is the case let me know please

Sure I have the DLC. But I dont play with it that often. DOnt really like it

@GamerGirlDK Yes, thats because of the DLC. I call the native wedding visual and this can lead to a crash - worked before but the DLC doesnt like it. I'm currently working on an alternative

You cant marry artisans or merchants in town and maybe companions? without it crashing either