I'm with you.

Was never so big on kids I wanted any. They're great fun for a little while, but then they start making those whining noises and talking through their nose while snot comes out of their mouth somehow.

As for marriage, I needed someone to feel familiar and not laugh when my stupid brains does things.

I really want to say something but I know Steam will ban me for it.

I used to feel that way too. As you get older you might change your mind, though. That's what happened to me. In fact my husband and I are also starting to think about kids now as well.

Although you might never change your mind and that's fine too, it's better to know where your heart is than forcing yourself to get married or have kids.

I started writing a book about why you might be terrified about such a thing happening to you, but I decided we should remain friends.

Kids are way too expensive. Forget it.

Oprindeligt skrevet af Mensis:

I used to feel that way too. As you get older you might change your mind, though. That's what happened to me. In fact my husband and I are also starting to think about kids now as well.

Although you might never change your mind and that's fine too, it's better to know where your heart is than forcing yourself to get married or have kids.

oh I didn't know you were married Mensis, a late mazel tov to you 🎉 uwu

There are some married ppl on OT just cheats their wifes or husbands with other man or woman

i think its about trust

this is just OT tho, most of the date apps and chat sites filled with married ppl, disgusting.

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Oprindeligt skrevet af Mensis:

I used to feel that way too. As you get older you might change your mind, though. That's what happened to me. In fact my husband and I are also starting to think about kids now as well.

Although you might never change your mind and that's fine too, it's better to know where your heart is than forcing yourself to get married or have kids.

oh I didn't know you were married Mensis, a late mazel tov to you 🎉 uwu

Thank you! I feel like you've made threads about marriage before, but maybe I never posted on them.

The wife getting a VAC ban would be grounds for divorce. Just sayin'.

Married young, no regrets.

Children, no way.

Oprindeligt skrevet af bythelee:

There are some married ppl on OT just cheats their wifes or husbands with other man or woman

i think its about trust

this is just OT tho, most of the date apps and chat sites filled with married ppl, disgusting.

yeah I've had some married men try to get with me before, they're so brave about it too uwu

Oprindeligt skrevet af BuniBealla:

Oprindeligt skrevet af bythelee:

There are some married ppl on OT just cheats their wifes or husbands with other man or woman

i think its about trust

this is just OT tho, most of the date apps and chat sites filled with married ppl, disgusting.

yeah I've had some married men try to get with me before, they're so brave about it too uwu

Yeah they also proud of that for some reason,, social decay literally :/

Why not? it seems like it gives you a lot of feeling of purpose

I plan to have kids, but they will be isolated from the western world and not born there because that's like giving birth on the titanic and i won't do that to them

If I was born in USA or Europe in 2010 with my adolescence in 2020s I would ask my parents why they even bothered

:/

I own a cat and believe me if I had kids I would probably will take a bullet for them as a result.
Cause someone being raised like sh*t usually has two paths if the person decides to have kids when starting a family.

Their either stupid as hell and continue the cycle of violence and wind up in jail as a result cause for some reason we have idiots having kids with someone who isn't planning to be a parent.

Or they can break the cycle by being a loving parent by giving their child the love and attention they never had when growing up thus become a good parent as a result of their experience of pain and not wanting their own flesh and blood to suffer through what they suffered.
...Which has many varying results on what kind of person the kid will be cause entitlement is real and the ones growing up to be respectable adults... tend to go to the worse kinds of people for relationships.

Believe me I would love to have a loving family of my own that understands each other... but I am laughably unprepared and horrendously ain't fit to be a parent of any kind due to so much sh*t I've witness and been through on both the real world and on the internet that me being a parent will stress me out tremendously due to probably being extremely overprotective should it ever happen.

Cause if having a cat taught me anything.
Parenting is basically LASO Halo if you decide to go in without having zero idea what is about.

...Also imagine being a kid of someone who spent a lot of time on OT typing a lot of their thoughts and feelings to strangers on the internet due to curiosity of trying to know their parent's past to know what they were like before they even existed.

It's like a guy finding out his mother used to be an OnlyFans model before quitting decades later after them being born.
...I just know some poor guy/kid out there is gonna suffer through that revelation as they're not gonna look at their mom the same way.

Same thing goes for Youtubers as well cause... well look at this guy and tell me otherwise.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U0RX-WdSVpY

I just know his kids are gonna ask him what was this about and it's going to be awkward as the inevitable DMC 6 release of Vergil realizing he is allowed to say Dad Jokes to Nero in a vain attempt to bond with his son after trying to repent for committing mass genocide in DMC 5 which the main bad guy demon being in DMC 6 is going to take advantage with the amount of human souls gained from Vergil's quest for power.