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derf 26. nov. kl. 12:18
such a thing of being too friendly?
one of my "friends" says he has trust issues with me because I am too friendly apparently... and the fact i dont understand his nsfw lingo he has where I never understand anything i guess nsfw.

am i suppose to be toxic? what does he want with me? is it wrong to come off as really forgiving, welcoming, friendly? Should I be meaner? I dont think I have it in me to even be slightly toxic to anyone.

edit: talking about online friendships. not real life intimacy. If you must know, I hate being intimate with anyone.
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Kayla ♥ 26. nov. kl. 12:20 
those are the same people who say i have toxic positivity
people just aren't used to genuine nice people for some reason
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Xero_Daxter 26. nov. kl. 12:20 
Sounds like a him problem. But maybe you should keep it on the downlow and keep your distance (relationship wise) until he slowly opens up.
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GustavoM 26. nov. kl. 12:21 
It depends of how you are being "too friendly". If that means, like... you barely know someone yet you invite that person to sleep in your house...? Then yeap, that is "too friendly" in my book.
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Kayla ♥ 26. nov. kl. 12:21 
also got to respect his boundaries if we taking like hugging
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derf 26. nov. kl. 12:23 
Oprindeligt skrevet af GustavoM:
It depends of how you are being "too friendly". If that means, like... you barely know someone yet you invite that person to sleep in your house...? Then yeap, that is "too friendly" in my book.
no, i have the demeaner of I really dont care about your personal life unless you open to me in specific and in that case I will of course have questions and try to help in any way I can. The only thing I guess would be too friendly of me that is kind of creepy I suppose is when he told me his friend is living on the street and starving, and I offered my last $50 I was suppose to feed myself with to instead help his friend I did not even know.
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Lunar Fang 26. nov. kl. 12:24 
Males and friendly don't go together.
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Kayla ♥ 26. nov. kl. 12:24 
Oprindeligt skrevet af Candy Borowski:
Oprindeligt skrevet af GustavoM:
It depends of how you are being "too friendly". If that means, like... you barely know someone yet you invite that person to sleep in your house...? Then yeap, that is "too friendly" in my book.
no, i have the demeaner of I really dont care about your personal life unless you open to me in specific and in that case I will of course have questions and try to help in any way I can. The only thing I guess would be too friendly of me that is kind of creepy I suppose is when he told me his friend is living on the street and starving, and I offered my last $50 I was suppose to feed myself with to instead help his friend I did not even know.
people will make fun of you for this but i think thats a genuine nice thing and something most people have lost. so good for you
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GustavoM 26. nov. kl. 12:25 
Oprindeligt skrevet af Kayla ♥:
also got to respect his boundaries if we taking like hugging
It depends of how and when. If someone you barely know reaches you and just gently taps your back? That is a fine hug. A hug where someone travels their hand on your back for over a second...? That is a definitely "no-no".
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derf 26. nov. kl. 12:25 
Oprindeligt skrevet af Xero_Daxter:
Sounds like a him problem. But maybe you should keep it on the downlow and keep your distance (relationship wise) until he slowly opens up.
I am trying my best to and finding people who might respect it more or perhaps I will try to research how people act online and try to replicate certain behaviors and personalities others has to try to be less friendly and caring for others. but how can I resist wanting to give $50 when he says his friend is on the streets starving, and I am the bad guy for wanting to help?
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Xero_Daxter 26. nov. kl. 12:25 
Oprindeligt skrevet af Lunar Fang:
Males and friendly don't go together.
I was gonna say something but I decided to be nice today.
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BuniBealla 26. nov. kl. 12:25 
Oprindeligt skrevet af Lunar Fang:
Males and friendly don't go together.

you mean awkward and clingy males uwu
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meucakesTM 26. nov. kl. 12:26 
idk but something here isn't adding up, especially with all that Patrick Bateman ♥♥♥♥ on your profile. :expression1:
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Kayla ♥ 26. nov. kl. 12:26 
Oprindeligt skrevet af GustavoM:
Oprindeligt skrevet af Kayla ♥:
also got to respect his boundaries if we taking like hugging
It depends of how and when. If someone you barely know reaches you and just gently taps your back? That is a fine hug. A hug where someone travels their hand on your back for over a second...? That is a definitely "no-no".
its hard to tell as everyone has different boundaries lol its a pain
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Druid Level 7 26. nov. kl. 12:28 
Oprindeligt skrevet af BuniBealla:
Oprindeligt skrevet af Lunar Fang:
Males and friendly don't go together.

you mean awkward and clingy males uwu
females and friendly don't go together
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derf 26. nov. kl. 12:28 
Oprindeligt skrevet af meucakesTM:
idk but something here isn't adding up, especially with all that Patrick Bateman ♥♥♥♥ on your profile. :expression1:
ignore that, whatever I have on my profile, does not apply to how I really act on other platforms. I do not use steam at all anymore and at this rate only use this to ask questions on fourms since I dont know where else to ask odd questions apart from steams off topic fourm.
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