pov all men

Oprindeligt skrevet af Lindsaayyyyyyyy:

pov all men

Didn´t You just open a thread which says that You´re a victim, because You´re a woman?

Topic:
It may depend - but as a manly man i have to say that i would never claim to be a victim, because it means i´m no longer a manly man. Only beta people are victims.

No, seriously. It depends. It gets annoying when certain people always claim to be victims, and even if You give a solution, they find another thing where they´re the victims. I guess it´s done for attention. And being recognized as a victim is the only way they could ever get any attention. One needs to avoid them, becasue it leads to nothing. And then they would claim that they´re victims, becasue other people avoid them.

Also i personally find the idea better that i´m the only one who can decide who insults me or not. If one let´s others decide it - it would be bad, wouldn´t it?

TL;DR:
Self sabotage in many (probably most) cases.

Oprindeligt skrevet af Triple G:

Oprindeligt skrevet af Lindsaayyyyyyyy:

pov all men

Didn´t You just open a thread which says that You´re a victim, because You´re a woman?

Topic:
It may depend - but as a manly man i have to say that i would never claim to be a victim, because it means i´m no longer a manly man. Only beta people are victims.

No, seriously. It depends. It gets annoying when certain people always claim to be victims, and even if You give a solution, they find another thing where they´re the victims. I guess it´s done for attention. And being recognized as a victim is the only way they could ever get any attention. One needs to avoid them, becasue it leads to nothing. And then they would claim that they´re victims, becasue other people avoid them.

Also i personally find the idea better that i´m the only one who can decide who insults me or not. If one let´s others decide it - it would be bad, wouldn´t it?

TL;DR:
Self sabotage in many (probably most) cases.

Ignore that I was trolling

This thread totally hurts my feelings, and I can't believe anybody would do that me. I never hurt anyone in my life. All anybody ever does is walk all over me. I may as well have "Welcome" stamped onto my forehead. It's so unfair. I never asked for this poor treatment. I am a good person. I hate this unfair and hurtful world.

Oprindeligt skrevet af Lindsaayyyyyyyy:

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Ignore that I was trolling

Oh thanks. I will ignore that. Along with everything else you post.

Good luck as you continue to learn how forums and social etiquette work!

Oprindeligt skrevet af BuniBealla:

what do you think about people who have a perpetual victim mindset?
If it stems from genuine trauma do you think it's a justifiable pathway to truly healing or is it more likely to just lead to a cycle of self sabotage? uwu

black hole personalities sabotage everyone and everything that they come in contact with.

I can't even address this because of all the hostility I'm getting.