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In the context of a long term relationship theres a point where its going to be a health and life stage impracticability when the age gap between partners starts extending into decades of difference.
Love is love, however. Its true we can't control how it manifests sometimes.
That tells me there's something other than love involved, because we all know if Bill Belichick had spent his last 50 years as a manager at Walmart, he wouldn't be hooking up with Jordan whats-her-name.
But I digress. I think it's creepy.
The problem with relationships where any disproportion is at play (age, class, income, education, etc) is that it becomes much more likely that at least one of the partners is being exploited, scaling with the magnitude of disproportion.
When a 40-year-old dates a 20-year-old, one or both parties might automatically exploit the other without even realizing, due to the sheer gap in their frames of reference.
And when you consider a case where exploitation IS an intended outcome of one of the participants, the gap makes it much easier for the abuser to succeed un-checked.
But at least for me, a difference is my preference. This is something I hold pretty openly. No, I'm not a forum troll; that is really my own, personal preference for a relationship. The requirement is someone who feels the same to younger ages — which I must admit, is a bit a rare find for being now, or even to be found in a couple of years.
Doesn't mean these kinds of relationships can't have genuine love involved, but it's just much less likely, and more prone to exploitation. personally, as long as both parties are legal, consenting adults then a larger age gap is fine, though I will always consider it unorthodox if the gap exceeds 10 years.
And aswell as I'm ranting about the difficulty it has been laying out for me, in my life.
No matter what they tell you, women will always like strong, tall men . The question is how many extra steps they take to like those men and what is the form of their attraction. Either way, can’t really tell much on this form as it’s run by censors and should really be closed down
At least not in the last 20 years or so. I used to get lucky a lot, back when all you had to do was make a girl laugh. It's just not the same anymore. Women resent men these days. I'm just waiting for the day I get chewed out for holding a door open for a girl at the convenience store.
I blame social media and jealousy.