I don’t control my anger around women. I take no responsibility at all.

引用自 DecolonizedHappy!：

I don’t control my anger around women. I take no responsibility at all.

You might as well walk around with a note on your forehead that has "I AM VERY INSECURE" written on it. Learning to control your anger is a big part of being a man. We have anger in spades because our body floods our brains with testosterone constantly. It's important to not let your emotions guide your actions.

If you read, read Marcus Aurelius' Meditations. It's not about meditating, I promise. Look into stoicism brother.

There was an old thread from 2016 about how to get a girlfriend that got necro'd then locked.
Here was the advice I gave in it:

-you don't have to be all buff, just get a decent, healthy body.
-hygiene is important, make sure you smell good and don't look like a slob.
-be yourself, don't try to be someone you're not.
-try and find humor in things. I have had some friends that did NOT look good or handsome, but they could make girls laugh, and they are confident. They had beautiful girl friends!
-That will go a long way... confidence in yourself and trying to be/have fun. You don't have to force it or try too hard, just let it come natural and see things from a funny/fun perspective.
- GENUINELY do not care if you try to talk to a girl and she is not into you. when she see's you are cool with it, she might try to hook you up with a friend, or just be friends in general which is always a great thing, you can talk to her about advice.

Lastly, and I don't know where you are with your beliefs but, prayer works.

You guys should get together with Jim and Apollo and make a YT channel where you argue about whose "advice" is right

I don't want bros I want girls

引用自 Jesus (Yeshua) lives&will return：

There was an old thread from 2016 about how to get a girlfriend that got necro'd then locked.
Here was the advice I gave in it:

-you don't have to be all buff, just get a decent, healthy body.
-hygiene is important, make sure you smell good and don't look like a slob.
-be yourself, don't try to be someone you're not.
-try and find humor in things. I have had some friends that did NOT look good or handsome, but they could make girls laugh, and they are confident. They had beautiful girl friends!
-That will go a long way... confidence in yourself and trying to be/have fun. You don't have to force it or try too hard, just let it come natural and see things from a funny/fun perspective.
- GENUINELY do not care if you try to talk to a girl and she is not into you. when she see's you are cool with it, she might try to hook you up with a friend, or just be friends in general which is always a great thing, you can talk to her about advice.

Lastly, and I don't know where you are with your beliefs but, prayer works.

Every single one of those is really good advice and would have been part of the longer post I would have made. But with some added examples, like things I experienced or done. Or ways I changed to kinda emphasize why, even though it sounds cliche, it works.

Prayer's efficacy is doubtful to me though.

who wrote this? elliot rodger? also one of the biggest problems i see is that the opposite genders treat each as if they are a totally different species. we're all human, just bond and treat her like you would with one of your bros. she is your best friend after all

引用自 CircuitGhost：

who wrote this? elliot rodger? also one of the biggest problems i see is that the opposite genders treat each as if they are a totally different species. we're all human, just bond and treat her like you would with one of your bros. she is your best friend after all

as long as there exists lonely folk, there will exist those who know the "secrets" to love and are willing to share with their fellows. usually not out of the goodness of their hearts. and usually these "secrets" are the most common sense things imaginable, or profoundly ignorant things.

引用自 Bayaz First of the Magi：

Would you be interested in a small guide on confidence, life and women? I've roamed this floating rock thing a good while now, and there are so many things I wish I could teach my fatherless, younger self.

If you think the guide will help people then go for it.

My tip, Don't forget paragraphs, You don't wanna make it just one huge wall of text.

To build confidence in life and relationships with women, focus on self-awareness and self-improvement by pursuing hobbies, setting goals, and practicing positive self-talk. Building a fulfilling life with your own achievements and a strong sense of self makes you more secure and attractive.

引用自 real human being：

I don't want bros I want girls

Having bros, at least if they are good bros, makes it easier to attract girls. If you have no friends it will make it harder for you to be in social situations where you meet girls. And if you happen to be in any social situation where there are girls present, they're likely with friends and being there alone is often in your disadvantage unless you already have the charisma and confidence that you likely don't have yet. Having some bros gives you social cover, credit and makes it easier for you to meet other bros. If you're at some party and there are a bunch of dudes laughing at your jokes and trying to talk to you, I can guarantee you it will attract girls' attention. Because it makes you seem confident, someone with humor and someone others like / popular.

Girls and women are also generally more social creatures. Men aren't necessarily like that. Most of us are not going out on dinners with our gf or wife because we like dining outside. We do it because the girls enjoy being out in social situations.

引用自 Bayaz First of the Magi：

This isn't some pickup artist bs I'm trying to sell. No money, no paid guides or lessons.

Just some good old-fashioned honest-to-goodness trolling.

引用自 Bayaz First of the Magi：

引用自 DecolonizedHappy!：

I don’t control my anger around women. I take no responsibility at all.

You might as well walk around with a note on your forehead that has "I AM VERY INSECURE" written on it. Learning to control your anger is a big part of being a man. We have anger in spades because our body floods our brains with testosterone constantly. It's important to not let your emotions guide your actions.

If you read, read Marcus Aurelius' Meditations. It's not about meditating, I promise. Look into stoicism brother.

Lmao 😂

引用自 < blank >：

To build confidence in life and relationships with women, focus on self-awareness and self-improvement by pursuing hobbies, setting goals, and practicing positive self-talk. Building a fulfilling life with your own achievements and a strong sense of self makes you more secure and attractive.

Been doing those and still learning it all to this day. However, to this point, it still gives me nothing but silent rejection and friendzone treatment solely because of my height I'm 5'7. In this case, what would be the advice? Getting that height lengthening surgery?

引用自 Deutro：

引用自 < blank >：

To build confidence in life and relationships with women, focus on self-awareness and self-improvement by pursuing hobbies, setting goals, and practicing positive self-talk. Building a fulfilling life with your own achievements and a strong sense of self makes you more secure and attractive.

Been doing those and still learning it all to this day. However, to this point, it still gives me nothing but silent rejection and friendzone treatment solely because of my height I'm 5'7. In this case, what would be the advice? Getting that height lengthening surgery? :tearsRV:

nah.

next time a girl asks you ';how tall are you' ask her 'how much do you weigh?' and teach them to respect boundaries. stand your ground. ya may be 5'7, but you can still deadlift the back of a car off the ground if you train for it. Mike Mentzer, the first man to score 300 points in the Mr Olympia competition, was 5'8.

Your potential is not limited by your height. only your belief in yourself.

don't hang around bimbos, they're poisonous.