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Gaming buddy online is talking about offing themselves .
I sat up for like 4 hours trying to convince this person not to do it. The worst part is that they're talking about doing it a home around their mom. I sent the suicide prevention hotline number to them. As we were talking they ended up changing the topic but i was trying to get to the bottom of the issue.

Turns out the person is just lonely and wants a gf and family . Said they never had one before . Tried but no luck for about 8 years but they gave up after like a few tries . I don't know what else to do but they have it planned out.
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jocoo 11 月 1 日 下午 1:32 
It takes a free account to make this claim eh...something is fishy!
Haven't heard of that game before, what's it called?
1. Confirm if its them and not a bot, or someone that stole their account
2. Remind them that their actions will have repurccusions on everyone.
3. This could be for attention(the worst way to get it). Do they have any romantic interest in you?
4. Defriend(but perhaps use the follow feature so you at least know whats going on)

You've already done the right thing by giving them the number, they just need to call. If they refuse to help themselves then their family must step in as soon as possible.
󠀡󠀡 11 月 1 日 下午 1:36 
block them
引用自 DarkCrystalMethod
1. Confirm if its them and not a bot, or someone that stole their account
2. Remind them that their actions will have repurccusions on everyone.
3. This could be for attention(the worst way to get it). Do they have any romantic interest in you?
4. Defriend(but perhaps use the follow feature so you at least know whats going on)

You've already done the right thing by giving them the number, they just need to call. If they refuse to help themselves then their family must step in as soon as possible.
1.) I'd spoken to them for over a year and i remember them being sad in the past so It's the same person .
2.) I did that for like 4 hours .
3.) I hope this isn't the case I'd be pissed . No ... we've never met in person and they've never seen me before . them loving me would be impossible.
4.) Defriending them sounds horrible .

I don't even think the family knows . They said " mom will be happy now she has a new son and now she can enjoy her life. " I asked if they felt like an outcast and they said no not at all they see no reason to go on but claim the reason is due to loneliness and not having a gf or own family. Idk I'm not beating myself up over it or anything but i tried to help.
引用自 󠀡󠀡
block them
how is that supposed to help them ?
󠀡󠀡 11 月 1 日 下午 2:09 
引用自 Fluid/Kuso
引用自 󠀡󠀡
block them
how is that supposed to help them ?
you already spent 4 hours reasoning with them, they're holding you accountable for something you have no control over and its ♥♥♥♥♥♥
Corvus XIII 11 月 1 日 下午 2:11 
Tell them to tell their mother how they feel about life right now.
agu 11 月 1 日 下午 2:17 
Ask him if he even lifts, bro
yui8 11 月 1 日 下午 2:31 
If you're a believer in Christ; pray for him! Ask The Lord to intervene! 🙏🏻
Alamort 11 月 1 日 下午 3:05 
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HeavyGoat 11 月 1 日 下午 3:55 
引用自 DarkCrystalMethod
3. This could be for attention(the worst way to get it). Do they have any romantic interest in you?
This is literally the worst way to think about it. If someone is even suspected to have though about Alt+F4'ing themselves, it is destructive to see it as seeking for attention. Nobody that's okay will use sewerslide as a way to get attention.
引用自 DarkCrystalMethod
[...] 3. This could be for attention(the worst way to get it). Do they have any romantic interest in you? [...]
引用自 Fluid/Kuso
[...] 3.) I hope this isn't the case I'd be pissed . [...]
That's a common behavior among people who have BPD
...so common, in fact, and uncommon in the general population, that it's one of the signs suggesting that one should consider looking for the condition professionally to get... therapy.

(Specifically when someone says they're going to do it for attention,
not just when someone says they're going to do it - that's different.)
最后由 Kiddiec͕̤̱͋̿͑͠at 🃏 编辑于; 11 月 1 日 下午 4:01
引用自 Fluid/Kuso
I don't even think the family knows . They said " mom will be happy now she has a new son and now she can enjoy her life. "
Then this might be one of the few times that showing them this clip might be effective :
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dQkFk_BmnLk
...then again, the train might give them ideas - maybe just try replicating Harold's speech instead.
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